Not Seeking Immediate Clarification When Suppressed
On the journey of life, we will inevitably encounter such situations that we are suppressed or misunderstood. If we are eager to express our true feelings when suppressed, it often leads to the opposite side and even generates resentment. Just like Yang Xiu during the Three Kingdoms period, he interpreted Cao Cao's thoughts in public to demonstrate his innocent urgently. However, his eagerness for immediate clarification not only failed to defend himself but also evoked Cao Cao's dissatisfaction and resentment.
At this moment, the principle of "not seeking immediate clarification when suppressed" teaches us to keep inner peace and calm especially when we face unexpected suppression and misunderstanding, it can also help us to keep harmony with each other and realize the peace in our heart.